Personality Disorder (NPD, BPD & OCD)
A personality disorder is a mental health condition where people have a lifelong pattern of seeing themselves and reacting to others in ways that cause problems. People with personality disorders often have a hard time understanding emotions and tolerating distress. And they act impulsively. This makes it hard for them to relate to others, causing serious issues, and affecting their family life, social activities, work and school performance, and overall quality of life.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. People with NPD often have difficulty handling criticism or feedback, and they may have a grandiose sense of their abilities and achievements.
Imagine a person who:
– Thinks they’re the most amazing, talented, and intelligent person in the world
– Needs constant praise and admiration from others to feel good about themselves
– Can’t handle criticism or feedback because it makes them feel belittled
– Thinks they’re superior to others and deserve special treatment
– Often acts selfishly, manipulating others to get what they want
– Has a hard time empathizing with others’ feelings and struggles
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is characterized by intense emotional dysregulation, unstable relationships, and impulsive behaviour. People with BPD often have difficulty managing their emotions, and their relationships can be intense and unpredictable.
Imagine a person who:
– Overwhelmed by strong feelings of sadness, anger, or anxiety
– Afraid of being abandoned or rejected
– Confused about who you are and what you want
– Like you’re constantly trying to get attention or approval from others
– Impulsive and reckless at times
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is characterized by recurring, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviours (compulsions) that an individual feels compelled to perform. These obsessions and compulsions can interfere with a person’s daily life, causing significant distress and impairment.
Imagine a person who:
– Might feel like need to wash hands 10 times a day to get rid of germs.
– Might check the stove 10 times to make sure it’s turned off.
– Might repeat a phrase or action multiple times to feel better.
At our practice, we go beyond the label to understand the person beneath it. Using an integrative approach—combining evidence-based therapies such as CBT, ACT, DBT, and Schema Therapy, etc with the gentle depth of hypnotherapy and guided imagery—we help clients safely explore the emotions behind their patterns, release what no longer serves them, and build healthier ways of relating to themselves and others. This is not about erasing personality, but about softening rigid defences and creating space for healing, compassion, and authentic connection.
From a holistic perspective, these struggles can also be seen as part of the soul’s journey: an invitation to grow from chaos into balance, from self-protection into openness, from suffering into deeper self-understanding. In this safe and compassionate space, clients can begin to rewrite their story—not defined by a diagnosis, but guided toward resilience, growth, and a life lived with greater clarity, stability, and peace.